Tuesday 24 May 2011



             IS SUICIDE IS THE  ONLY SOLUTION ?



              


Here  I  am  in a great dilemma that to whom I would blame  for this unexpected tragedy.....


As we are hearing more about the increasement in the student's suicide especially during  the time of results announcement of Matriculation, Intermediate and etc exams.


I'm in a great dilemma because everybody knows the suicide case is no longer seen by the detectives. If the evidence proves the suicide is the real suicide then the matter is closed at that time  and is eradicated  for forever.


But my heart says that the matter shouldn't be closed easily.


Well who is the responsible  for it ? - Parents  / Child / Corruption / Society  ....


                          
                                      
I don't want to put blame on the  PARENTS  because I really can't  feel right to blame on them . I think they don't deserve for it actually .


If we put blame on the CHILD  but... but... but  my dear friends its not possible because its very sad to say you about this as the child  is  not in the world , they are now with the god....... We may say that the child has chosen that place  by his/her choice , it shows that they may have fed-up from this world....


        
  


Is their parents are responsible for this ???


Is there any blunder happend by thier parents towards child ???


What's the reason behind it ?????????


They may tried to fill up the pitcher (vessel)  with just a  glass of water....


As here the glass of water is compared with the child's ability and a big pitcher (vessel) is the big dreams of the parents ......


           Child's ability = Glass of Water


    Big Pitcher = Big Dreams Of Parents


If really the reasons are parents  then how they can forget about the day when they were celebrating the birth day of their child gifted by the God.




     
Oh! My God its so horrible and painful...


As there is nice saying is that   " If the bird  is flying in the sky thats the God's love , if the bird is in the cage thats the human love . "


As I have discussed above that the child decided to go to the God's place by their own choice due to getting fed up by the world .


I think child is fedup by the world because of the cage life as same as the bird , so child decided to go to the  God's place because the child wants to be free as same as the bird flying in the sky...


 It means that the parent's caring and love creates the uncomfortable zone in the child's life indirectly as same as the cage life ...  And the result is that they are trying to return the God's gift ( child) to God  indirectly or unawarely....


          


How parents forget their importance which is essential in the child's life to make them comfortable in every kinds of  situations...


As we hear about the Parents that they are more important than the God because God gives their children both happiness and sorrowness but  Parents try their best to give their children only the happiness...


But the main question arouses in my mind..... IS SUICIDE IS  THE ONLY  SOLUTION ???


Infact How could I blame to the parents also because they are giving their best to their children by sacrificing their own enjoyment and needs .....


So thats why I am in a great dilemma to whom i should blame ??????


But I always think about those children who are not in the world now that which kind of problems and environment they faced in their life which make them so weak and the life itself puts the only option infront of them that is 
                                  SUICIDE ...!!!!!




                


  
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                                              By :- 
Raj Kiran Gupta